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In some ways, the photos I've taken of charity fundraisers at the Big Gay Frat House are some of my absolute favorites. They may be only #9 on my list, but that's because other types of photos are so much more significant in my Flickr stream, especially in terms of fan favorites. The very first fundraiser was held on April 15, 2006, and the very last one held in the house was April 12, 2008. During those two years, we raised a net total of 30,000 for different LGBT charitable causes in our home.
Here are the different fundraisers that have given the Big Gay Frat House a name and quite a lot of traffic to my Flickr stream.
Balls Out Ball
Our very first fundraiser was the
Balls Out Ball, a benefit for the
SF Fog rugby team. The event came about because a friend of mine on the team took me out for drinks to get my ideas regarding how the team could raise their profile and improve their fundraising efforts. I warned them that a sports team could never compete against AIDS and social services as a
cause. Instead, they needed to compete in the world of entertainment, creating an event that someone would want to go to instead of going out to the bars or the movies or the theater. One natural asset, I said, was that they were a team of athletes who already have a culture for getting naked at the drop of a hat. I suggested that they could compete against bars, who cannot show full nudity due to archaic Alcohol Beverage Control regulations, by doing a full monty strip show.
At the same time, Tim discovered that Varla Jean Merman's rates for charitable events were affordable, and he wanted a reason to have her perform in our own home.
One of the members of the Fog worked at a local Castro bar and wass able to arrange for alcohol sponsorship from their liquor distributor -- a sweet guy who ultimately sponsored alcohol for every fundraiser ever held at the BGFH. The VIP area included a top-shelf open bar and a Talisker whiskey tasting lounge. The main bar featured free well drinks. And the show, hosted by Empress Donna Sachet and Greg the Gay Sportscaster, included five bachelor date auctions, performances by Varla Jean Merman and Ethel Merman, and a choreographed full monty strip show from seven of the rugby boys who showed everything.
You can check out more photos on Flickr. Below there are slideshows of the party and the performances:
Party Slideshow
Performance Slideshow
A Midsummer Night's Dream
In August of 2006, we threw our second fundraiser, A Midsummer Night's Dream, which was a benefit for Community United Against Violence.
We negotiated a deal to bring up Chi Chi LaRue to be our celebrity emcee, but when she had a scheduling conflict, we then turned to Brent Corrigan. The event featured an open bar, a chocolate bar sponsored by the San Francisco Chocolate Factory, appetizers from Healthy Spirits, and chair massages provided by Joshua Alexander, CMT.
Brent Corrigan presided over a competition in which three candidates performed and sold raffle tickets in order to be crowned King or Queen of the Fairies. Connie Champagne and Ethel Merman also performed, accompanied by Trauma Flintstone on the keyboard. In the meantime, Julian Marshburn, Mr. SF Leather 2004, wandered through the party with a gang of fairies bribing guests to play pranks on his fairies.
In the end, Katya Smirnoff-Skyy was crowned Queen with runner-up Foxy Cotton as her King. The party was a tremendous success, raising thousands of dollars for CUAV at their typical end-of-summer budget crunch.
You can check out photos on Flickr from batch 1 or batch 2, or see highlights in the slideshows below.
Midsummer Night's Dream slideshow, part 1:
Midsummer Night's Dream slideshow, part 2:
Girl Drink Drunks
In 2007, we partnered with Trauma Flintstone to launch a series of turnkey charity fundraisers called Girl Drink Drunk, named after a Kids in the Hall skit. We provided the basic infrastructure: the space, the staging and decorations, and the sponsors (especially for alcohol). Trauma Flintstone arranged for the entertainment, which generally included a blend of drag lipsynchers, drag live singers, a faux queens -- and, later, male strippers. And the beneficiary provided the staffing for the front door, coat check, clean-up, and, optionally, bartending. (We provided a bartender who worked for tips when the beneficiary chose not to staff that role.)
The approach made it simple for a charity to have a quick-and-easy fundraiser where, aside from finding volunteers for the evening, they didn't need to do anything to plan for the event.
Neighbor complaints and other issues ultimately forced us to abandon Girl Drink Drunk, but not before we held seven fundraisers that benefitted the SF Fog, Project Open Hand, the AIDS Housing Alliance, the SF Lesbian/Gay Freedom Band, the Stop AIDS Project, the GoalDiggers gay hockey team, and Community United Against Violence.
Check out Flickr photos from all of our Girl Drink Drunks, or a random sample below:
Frat House for the Holidays
In November of 2007, we partnered with Sigma Epsilon Omega, a new gay fraternity at U.C. Berkeley, to host Frat House for the Holidays.
Kevin and Tim had gone to U.C. Berkeley, where Tim had been in a straight-but-supportive fraternity. Kevin never joined a frat; a gay fraternity was being formed as he was graduating, but it collapsed after less than a year. David had been kicked out of his straight fraternity in Ohio when he came out, and then later joined a different gay fraternity at San Francisco State. So we wanted to make sure that SEO had a fighting chance to survive.
The event featured an open bar, drinking games, a dance floor, go-go boys (one who went all the way, full frontal), and a VIP lounge with top-shelf liquor and gift bags. We never did figure out how to monetize the drinking games, but it was still a lot of fun. Five of the boys were auctioned off for charity bachelor dates, which proved to be an excellent fundraising addition.
Though most if not all of the SEO boys who participated at the fundraiser have now graduated, the fraternity continues to thrive at U.C. Berkeley in a rented house that they hope to be able to buy at some point. Maybe another fundraiser someday?
Check out more photos on Flickr.
Flop House
In April of 2008, we held the last fundraiser at the Big Gay Frat House: Flop House, a benefit for SF Boylesque. This time Boylesque provided all of the entertainment.
SF Boylesque is a mostly-male burlesque troupe in the style of the old Weimar Republic. Or, as they summarize on their Facebook page:
Burlesque meets vaudeville meets circus meets San Francisco fringe, scored with a ragtime beat.
Face painting. Stilt walkers. Jugglers. The strongest man in the world. Choreographed strip tease numbers. Pole dancing. Lap dances. Open bar. Bachelor date auctions. Unfortunately, we had to veto their request to include a fire breather.
The Flop House event was filmed by our friend Sean Chapin for inclusion in his documentary about us, My Big Gay Frat House, which was posted in its entirety (broken into three sections) on Youtube.
In addition to the slideshow below, I have more photos on Flickr, as does our friend Michael:
Another Gay Fundraiser
In June of 2008, we again partnered with Brent Corrigan to throw Another Gay Fundraiser, a play on the name of Another Gay Movie featuring Brent that was being released the same weekend. This was our first big event outside of the house.
Once again, Community United Against Violence was the beneficiary, just as they had been for the Midsummer Night's Dream fundraiser that Brent emceed at the BGFH. And Katya Smirnoff-Skyy, who was proclaimed Queen of the Fairies at the Midsummer fundraiser, came back to perform.
The LookOut, which had recently replaced the Metro City Bar, played house and provided us with Jell-O shots that Brent's boys sold. Brent also auctioned off the first of a limited edition set of prints of an illustration of him as Stan the Merman from Another Gay Movie illustrated by Ismael Alvarez. Brent designed the publicity posters himself. DJ Pornstar provided the music.
Check out more of my photos, as well as others from our friend Georg.
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